Tuesday, December 26, 2017

Let's get a LIFE, before Life gets us instead....


A lovely little girl was holding two apples with both hands.

Her mum came in and softly asked her little daughter with a smile; my sweetie, could you give mummy one of your two apples?

The girl looked up at her mum for a few seconds, then suddenly took a quick bite on one apple, and then quickly on the other.

The mum felt the smile on her face froze. She tried hard not to reveal her disappointment.

Then the little girl handed one of her bitten apples to her mum,and said: mummy, here you are. This is the sweeter one.

No matter who you are, how experienced you are, and how knowledgeable you think you are, always delay judgement. 

Give others the privilege to explain themselves.   
                           
What you see may not be the reality. Never jump to conclusions regarding their actions.

Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.

Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money.

Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility.

Those who apologize first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them.

Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend.

Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart.

Those who take out time to chat with you, does not mean they are jobless or less busy, but they know the importance of keeping in touch.

One day, all of us will get separated  from each other; we will miss our conversations of everything & nothing; the dreams that we had.

Days will pass by, months, years, until this contact becomes rare... One day our children will see our pictures and ask 'Who are these people?' And we will smile with invisible tears  because a heart is touched with a strong word and you will say: 'IT WAS THEM THAT I HAD THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFE WITH'.

Motivate Your Team by Showing Them What Motivates You


As a manager, one of your greatest concerns is how to motivate your employees to do their best work.

But how often do you think about what makes you excited to come to work every day?

Take a moment to check in with how you’re feeling about your job.

When do you feel proud of leading your team?

What aspects of your role do you enjoy?

How can you increase your enthusiasm for your position?

Your employees notice whether you have a genuine connection to your work, so if your energy is flagging, theirs may, too.

Reconnect with what you love about your job, and then share your positive attitude freely. Modeling engagement with and enthusiasm for your work is one of the best ways to inspire employees.

Adapted from “Motivating Employees Is Not About Carrots or Sticks,” by Lisa Lai

Thursday, December 14, 2017

BEZA tapi SAMA & SERUPA tapi TAK-SAMA*_


Orang yang Mencintai Kita hingga dia Menutup Mata ialah...*MAK*

Orang yang mencintai kita dengan tiada Ekspresi Mata ialah...*ABAH*
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*MAK* Memperkenalkan kita kepada Dunia.

*ABAH* Memperkenalkan Dunia kepada kita.
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*MAK* : Membawa kita kepada Kehidupan.

*ABAH*  : Membawa Kehidupan kepada kita.
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*MAK* : Menjaga kita supaya tidak Lapar.

*ABAH* : Membuat kita tahu Makna Lapar.
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*MAK* : Memberi kita Kasih Sayang.

*ABAH* : Memberi kita Tanggung jawab.
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*MAK* : Mengajar kita supaya tidak terjatuh.

*ABAH* : Mengajari kita bangun bila terjatuh.
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*MAK* : Mengajarkan kita Berjalan.

*ABAH* : Mengajarkan kita Jalan hidup.
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*MAK* : Mengajar kita melalui Pengalamannya.

*ABAH* : Mengajar kita untuk mendapatkan Pengalaman.
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*MAK* : Memperkenalkan ideologi.

*ABAH* : Memperkenalkan realitas
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*KASIH MAK* diketahui semenjak kita Dilahirkan.

*KASIH ABAH* diketahui bila dia sudah tiada.
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Kasihilah *ABAH* Anda.

Sayangilah *MAK* Anda.

*Selama mereka masih ada*
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Rumah tidak akan berseri tanpa kehadiran Anak, tapi rumah akan lebih sunyi bila  *MAK & ABAH*  sudah tiada....

Ini sekadar renungan Bersama buat Kita sebagai *ANAK*  dan sebagai  *MAK  & ABAH*  bagi anak-anak kita....